When it comes to money there is always tension in a sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship. In order not scare off a likely sugar daddy, the sugar baby has to be careful not to present herself as being greedy or lacking selfrespect. If the idea of asking a likely sugar daddy for an allowance petrifies you, don’t worry too much. You aren’t in that ship all by yourself; it is completely normal. Most people are not blessed with the ability to request for financial assistance and have no idea on how to go about it elegantly.
How to ask for an allowance with your head held high.
First of all do not demand for money on the first day you meet him, especially it you plan on having sex with him because it can easily be misinterpreted as whoring and that’s not what a sugar daddy and sugar baby relationship is all about. Just follow the guidance below and in no time you will be an expert in requesting for an allowance from your sugar daddy.
You are not merchandise
Now we must get this straight once and for all, do not try to determine your price by measuring your selfworth, this is a trap avoid it completely. This isn’t about how much you are physically worth. You do not have a price tag, don’t set a price value on who you are and your attributes, don’t even dare. The reason for this discussion is about demanding for what you need to be comfortable. The amount of time you intend to spend with your sugar daddy and other expense should be borne in mind when you are demanding for a monthly allowance. Determine what really your needs are and list them instead of measuring your physical selfworth.
Do not play down your expectations
Sugar relationships depends on the desires and needs of both parties, so its different rules apply to different folks. The best way to start is to list your needs from rent, food, tuition and what you will need to have fun, luxuries and all. Set the amount of money you need irrespective of the sugar daddy.
Rehearse your speech
Practice eloquence and get comfortable in asking for what you desire and want, practice it over and over again till you are very comfortable or cozy with it.
How generous is your sugar daddy?
Try to assess how much your sugar daddy is willing to pay you, you can do this by asking off his other mistresses offhand and how much he paid them. Then you can decide to ask within that range keeping in mind the range you have set already.
As ladies we tend to put ourselves down and unfortunately that shows in a bargain power, you must be able to tell him straight to the point how much you need. Keep calm and remain beautiful like it’s normal thing for you. Be true to yourself and do not be intimidated ask for what you need and deserve.